Look To the Western Sky

A blog about single life as a parent & the dreams of a writer by Margo L. Dill

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The Everyday Super Foods You Need In Your Diet

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We often hear about the term “superfoods” and how we need to incorporate them into our diets. But in reality, what does a superfood even do? The key to the term is that they are multi-taskers. They do more than one thing and are full of a variety of disease-fighting nutrients. They are usually fairly low in calories too; and at the end of the day, they are usually packaged in a form that tastes good, which really is what is going to make us eat more and more of them and incorporate them into our lives every day.

Some of the superfoods, may be a little quirky for our everyday diets, though. Can you imagine any of your children munching on goji berries? They are good for you, but not something you (or the kids) would be wanting to have every single day. They can be hard to find and pricier than many other alternatives too. So it is good to find out what superfoods can be added into your day, each day. Here are some super simple superfoods that you can have that are easy to find, easy to eat, and taste great.

Berries

They say that the brighter and more colorful your plate, the better it will be for you. So adding things like berries into your diet everyday is a good way to add plenty of color. Berries, like raspberries, blueberries, and strawberries, are full of fiber, as well as being filling. They are full of antioxidants too, which can keep you healthy and even help to keep your memory sharp. They are versatile too, which makes them a great staple in every household.

Vitamin C & Vitamin K

Two vitamins that are particularly important for our bodies, as well as for things like ecchymosis (or bruising) to heal, are Vitamin C and Vitamin K. The former helps with tissue repair, and the latter, vitamin K, plays a big part in blood clotting. Both of these are found in fruits and leafy green vegetables. So if you find that you bruise easily, then it may be your body’s way of telling you that you need a more nutrient-rich diet. The foods these vitamins are found in are low in fat, high in fiber, and have other goodness in them, like iron and magnesium.

Eggs

Protein is something that we need in our diets as it helps our bodies to repair and to grow. There are plenty of ways to get protein into our bodies, including sources that aren’t from animals. One of the cheapest sources of protein, as well as being a high-quality protein source, are eggs. They are also low in calories, at around 70 calories per egg. They are packed with antioxidants that take care of our eyes, and the lutein in eggs can also help to protect our skin from UV rays. The humble egg is a super-nutritious powerhouse.

Oats

Oats are a superfood in several different ways. They are an easy and digestible food to have in our diets, and are a good way to increase your intake of fiber (something that many of us lack enough of). Having a breakfast that is full of fiber can help us keep full until lunch, which is always a good thing, especially if we are looking to watch our waistline. Oats are also a whole grain, meaning they have been unprocessed, and they don’t have any added sugar. So they are the perfect alternative to breakfast cereal. You can use them in oatmeal, overnight oats, breakfast bars, baked desserts, and even into energy balls, and making your own milk.

Sweet Potatoes

Sweet potatoes are another testament to the saying that the brightest foods are the best for you. They are full of color because they are full of carotene, which our bodies use to make vitamin A. This vitamin can help our immune systems, as well as helping us to have strong bones. In fact, one sweet potato has around four more times vitamin A than the recommended amount. So they are great to add to your diet. Roasted, baked, or made into your own fries, are all good ways to go.

Do you have a favorite food that you and your family like to have in your diet? As you can see, for foods to be super, they don’t need to be expensive, with a name you can’t pronounce, or bought in a health food store. It would be great to hear what you think!

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Yes, You’re A Parent, But 10 Ways To Care For Yourself Too

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Being a parent can be tough, we all know that. And as much as you love your children, and as much as you wouldn’t trade this blessed job for anything else in the world, you’re still a human. As an adult, you really do have to be able to put them first, but also cover off your own needs too. Whether you are a single mom or not, this is essential. You know the saying about putting your life jacket on first before helping anyone else? Well, that comes into play a lot here. It’s great that you want to be a wonderful mother, and you want your children to be happy, but you also need to be happy too. And not only that, healthy as well.

If right now, you know that you’re not really doing enough to put your own needs first, then you may want to think about changing things. You’ve probably got yourself into a bit of a rhythm with how you care for your kids, and that’s okay. But if you know that you’re neglecting your own needs, then things need to change. Or worse, if you’re stressed out, tired, overworked, and just generally unhappy, then you really do need to take action. Of course, even if you are happy (or you think you’re happy enough) some of the ideas we’re about to walk through may apply to you too. So let’s take a look at some of the things you can do to start taking care of your own needs better.

Think About Your Future

First of all, you need to start thinking a little more about your future. And this is incredibly important. If you want to be able to be happy in life, you need to make sure that you’re on the right track. Yes, you’re a mom, but that’s not all you are. And when your kids grow up, you don’t want to feel like you missed out on doing something that you love. So plan your future and figure out what you can do today that’s going to get you to where you want to be in ten years time.

Give Yourself An Hour

When it comes to physically looking after yourself on a day to day basis, you just need to be able to give yourself an hour. There are lots of different ways to find time for yourself, no matter how busy you are. So shift your schedule and make sure that you get an hour each day to just be you, relax, and do something that you love, like take a bath or read.

Balance Your Work Life

Next up, you’re going to want to focus on finding a balance with your work. Now, this isn’t always easy, but you can’t just be an employee and a mom, and then go to sleep. You’ll be exhausted. So you have to have boundaries and be able to slot your work in with everything else. Don’t feel too pressured to keep on working when the kids are asleep, you need time for yourself too.

Create A Social Life

One of the main reasons you need to keep your work life balanced is because you need a social life too. And this is essential. Even if you’re a single mom – well, even more so! A rewarding social life is something that we all deserve and it doesn’t have to be impossible to find. When you build the right network around you, you’ll feel like you’re finally putting your needs first.

Pursue Your Passion

Next, you’re going to want to make sure that whatever you want to do in life, you make time for it. If you want to write or paint, then make sure that you accommodate more time for this in your life. Life is too short for you not to do the things you love, even as a busy mom!

Take Better Care Of Your Health

But at the same time, you also need to focus on your health. Because you are only human, and if you don’t take care of your body, it will show. So above all else, eat well and stay active. When you’re focusing on your health, you will always feel great too.

Take Action

Next, you need to make sure that you are taking control of any situation that you might be in right now. If you need to handle settlements or get compensation, speak to the right professional like Muth Law and take action. Now’s the time to do it. When you do, you’ll feel like you have so much more control over your own life.

Focus On Relationships

From here, you should also start to think about your relationships a little bit more. It’s important that you’re able to develop great parent-child relationships and not just be their mom. At the same time, you should want to think about strengthening the bond you have with others around you. It’s so important to be able to have good relationships with those around you if you want to be able to feel your best.

Do Something Just For You

At the same time, you have to ensure that you’re doing things just for yourself. Not because you feel like you should, not because someone else wants you to, but because you’re taking care of your own needs. Maybe you want to take a class or you want to start a course? Whatever it is, just make sure that you take the plunge.

Always Aim To Live Your Best Life

Finally, you should definitely make sure that you’re living well on your own terms too. Remember, this is your life. You won’t ever want to feel like you didn’t live it your own way. So look how you want to look, dress in a way that makes you feel confident, take care of your appearance and feel good about yourself. Make sure that you act in a way that makes you feel like yourself. Do the things that make you happy. Because you should never look back and regret the things that you didn’t do!

 

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Round-Up: Self-Care and Emotional Health Top 5 Articles

Self-care and emotional health are two very important topics to me. I recently saw this quote on a quote calendar I own:

“You must love and care for yourself because that’s when the best comes out.” ~ Tina Turner

So true, right? And as we all know, it is not always easy when you’re a parent, especially. So here is a round-up of the top 5 articles on my blog that have to do with self-care and emotional health. I chose this round-up thanks to everyone who took my poll on what topics readers would like me to focus on next. So here we go…

Life Is All About Your Reaction and Your Tribe (This post is about surrounding yourself with people who make you better and how you can’t control others, but you can control your reaction!)

Parents: Taking Time For Yourself (This post is about a trip I took with my girlfriends and why it is important for all parents to fill their well.)

The Thing About Change and Not Giving Up (This post was inspired by a book I read about ways to NOT become unglued and making imperfect progress toward goals.)

5 Things I Learned About Living In 2016 (From “balance is key” to “parenting is hard and give yourself a break”, this post shares my personal experiences while trying to improve my emotional health.)

Make This the Year You Start Taking Care of Number One  (Three tips for taking care of yourself and why you should! )

 

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Thriving, Not Just Surviving, as a One-Income Family

The following contributed article has four really good tips that we have all heard before but that are so true. One of my goals this year is to stop using credit cards and to pay for things with cash. We have stopped eating out as much and are looking for free and inexpensive (but fun) activities to do this summer while we save up money for future better vacations. Anyway, when this article came in, it really hit home for me, so I hope it does for others, too. 

Being a family that is living off one income can be tricky, but it is possible to do it and to thrive as you do so, rather than just survive. The key is to get serious about your finances and keep track of them, which may seem tedious. But it can help you to stay on top of things and to not feel like each month is such a struggle. There are plenty of families that out there, living off one income, whether as a single parent family or a family where only one parent works. So here are some of the tips and strategies to help your family do just that.

Plan a Precise Budget

When it comes to money and making sure that you have enough to go around, you need to have a budget that is specific and precise. It is no use just looking at your income and guessing what the bills are that you owe. Check your statements and bills, so that you know exactly what you do owe each month. From there, you can set a specific budget for groceries, clothing, entertainment, etc. When you’re specific and precise, you know exactly what money is going where, and what you should be left with at the end of each month.

Shop Around

It pays to shop around in all aspects of your life. Take your mortgage (or rent) as an example. No doubt this will have been set up a while back, and not looked at since. But you can change your mortgage provider, even when you are still owing. The debt gets “transferred” to the new provider. So shop around to check that you’re getting the best deal possible. Are there mortgage brokers that perhaps offer cash back or guaranteed low rates? Shopping around works for other things too: from your cell phone provider, to your grocery store, to where you buy school shoes. Shop around, don’t just take someone’s first offer, and you will save.

Reduce Debt

One of the best things that you can do to really thrive as a single-income family, is to reduce the amount of debt that you owe. You can never truly thrive as a single income family if you have debt around your neck. So as part of your precise budget, make sure that you look at paying off credit cards or other loans as a priority. It may mean some sacrifices to start with, but it will be so much better all around when you are consumer debt-free.

Use Cash

Using credit cards can be tricky for a number of reasons. One of which is that you don’t “see” the money going, so you can kind of get out of hand as you spend it. And for things like groceries, you just buy what you want and put it on a card. But using cash, and not having cards with you, makes you pay more attention to your budget. If you’re in the store, you can only buy what the cash in your hand will cover. So there is no overspending unnecessarily, and you’re more conscious of what you’re spending.

 

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4 Tips for Dealing With Debt When You’ve Got Mouths to Feed

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Debt is horrible, and anyone that’s ever been in a significant amount of debt will be able to confirm that it’s one of the worst things that can happen to you. The situation can be made worse when you’ve got a family that needs feeding. However, all is not lost. While you may feel hopeless when it comes to your financial situation, there are always things you can do to help your financial situation. Here are some tips on how to deal with debt when you’ve got mouths to feed. Let’s get your financial status back on track!

Phone around your providers

One of the easiest ways of freeing up more money in your bank account each month is by phoning around your utility providers and securing yourself a better and cheaper deal for your energy. One thing that no energy company will tell you is that there is always a cheaper deal unless you call and ask. The threat of you leaving them will spur them into offering a cheaper (and most likely more value for your money) deal. You can do this with all of your providers including your phone bill, car insurance, and even your broadband deal. Put those haggling skills to good use and help yourself out financially!

Speak to a bankruptcy attorney

Sometimes your debt can get to a point where you simply cannot fathom how you’re going to get yourself out of the situation. At times like this, it’s a good idea to speak to a bankruptcy attorney for some advice. They can talk with you about the process of chapter 13 , help create a future financial plan for you to stick by, and answer any questions you may have. Sometimes starting a fresh is the best thing that you can do for yourself.

Cut out anything unnecessary

You’d be surprised at how many things you’re paying for that you don’t actually need. Go through you direct debits and standing orders to make sure that you’re not paying for something that you no longer need or want. That magazine subscription? Get rid of it so that you can free up some money in your bank account each month!

Consider selling something of value

When you have excessive debt, you could see something of value and pay off your debt. or at least a large chunk of it and make life much easier for yourself. This might be some jewelry, a vintage car that’s been in your garage, or even a collector’s item that you’ve been storing away.

Try these four ideas to get yourself out of debt and allow you to continue providing for your family! Remember to keep track of your finances so that you can avoid getting into debt in the first place.

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Do You Celebrate Half-Birthdays in Your Family? Take the Poll

Today is KT’s half-birthday, and she treats it like a holiday–I mean, who wouldn’t, right? I’m not sure how we got started on this half-birthday idea–I do remember when I was 4 1/2, my mom made me a birthday cake. Don’t worry–I’m not doing that! So I’m guessing that at some point, Grandma told KT about this “holiday”, and now here we are! Today, I’m picking her up from school and taking her to the mall, so she can pick out a JoJo Siwa bow and eat an Auntie Anne’s pretzel. 🙂

This is a Jojo bow.

Yesterday, her dad let her have a donut for breakfast in honor of 7 1/2, so this kid has got it made. But these events made me wonder: Do you celebrate half-birthdays in your family? And if so, how?

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A quick Google search on half-birthdays turned up a ton of posts, believe it or not, with tips and ideas on what to do for a half-birthday. Sometimes, families will celebrate a half-birthday instead of an actual birthday because the actual birthday is on a holiday, like Halloween or Christmas. So the child feels special and not forgotten or overlooked on the holiday, he or she will get a party on the half-birthday.

There are even great half-birthday cakes that look cute and delicious, and I’m not that big of a cake fan. I really like a blog post on this topic from the blog: Mom of 6.  She has 5 ideas for celebrating half-birthdays, and they are practical–even more so than my mall trip with Katie. 🙂 This Mom of 6 blogger definitely gets a Practical Moms Unite award for suggesting things like: Wake them up by singing happy half-birthday and letting them stay up a half-hour later than normal–easy-peasy and things kids love. To read her full post and see some cute cake ideas, click here.

So if you know KT and see her soon, say: Happy half-birthday and ask her how the day went! And even Mother Nature is blessing her today with a beautiful spring day full of sun and nice temperatures.

Have you joined the Pre-Summer Reading Challenge yet? It starts April 30, 2018, and it’s free and easy. You have to read 21 days for 20 minutes a day to complete the challenge and start a healthy reading habit. 

 

 

 

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Top 5 Financial Posts to Help Parents Manage Their Money

Here are the top 5 articles on “Look to the Western Sky” to help you make smart financial decisions for you and your family. Most of these articles with “finance” or “budget” in the title or tagged with these words were contributed. I think many of them offer some good, practical advice and give you some points to consider when you are thinking about your family’s budget. I didn’t include two articles about making money online, but those are also on my blog if you want to click FINANCE in the tag cloud and scroll down to find those. Sometimes, you are looking for part-time opportunities or day-time work that does not make you leave your house or your children, so those two articles are something to also check out.

I’m always looking for good financial articles for parents for this blog–these articles help me and they help my readers. Even the most money savvy person can use a reminder here or there on how to save money or take an inexpensive vacation or save for your children’s college. Our motto should not be “Money Schmoney.” 🙂

Overcoming Your Financial Slump: A Single Parent’s Guide

 

Improving Your Finances at the End of the Week

 

Cutting The Cost of Parenthood

 

Money Myths That Cost Single Parents Greatly

 

Great Parenting Needn’t Be Expensive

 

 

 

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As Parents, What Can We Do to Give Our Children The Best Start in Life?

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When you have a child, your world changes. No longer are you the most important person in your life, you now have a responsibility to look after your child and ensure they’re happy, healthy and grow up to be a functioning member of society. Raising a child can be a minefield, and lots of things will depend on factors like the country you live in, your own personal views, your religion and much more. However there are some things that are common with all of us. Here are some of the ways your child can get off to the best start.

Look After Their Health

As parents, our children’s health is of the utmost importance. However, we’re in the midst of an obesity epidemic, and even well-meaning parents can find that their children are a little heavier than guidelines suggest they should be. This can be a mixture of a lack of knowledge, easy access to convenient foods and things like technology making kids more sedentary. A decade or two ago, children would be running around outside, playing on their bikes and being active to curb boredom. These days, they can access the world at their fingertips using their phones, computers or TV. One of the best things you can do to promote good health in children is to make it fun. Encourage them to prepare healthy meals with you, choose good ingredients while shopping and even grow some of your own foods together. Make exercise enjoyable- hire a bouncy castle on a summer’s weekend or purchase a trampoline. Have water fights and play active games together. Go on family hikes and bike rides together , which are great for bonding as well as getting in some all-important exercise. When it’s fun, kids are more likely to get on board, and eventually healthy living will become an ingrained habit. It allows them to make healthy choices for themselves as they get older, which can set them up for success in their life in future.

Invest in Their Education

Being well educated can give you so many more opportunities in life. It means you can apply for better jobs, get on a good career path and have the ability to earn money, which can give you financial freedom and a much more comfortable lifestyle. Making sure they get access to good education, and encouraging a love of learning are two of the very best things you can do for your child’s future. Studies have found that the quality of education that children receive has more of an influence than gender or even their family’s income. Your child’s attitude, their friends and peers, their knowledge and job prospects for the future will all be influenced by the school you pick. On top of finding a good school, you could focus on their education in other ways. Take them on educational trips such as to museums and galleries. Teach them around the home about nutrition, cooking, baking, DIY and crafts for example. Take them camping, fishing, teach them map reading and orienteering, and introduce them to lots of extracurricular activities, such as sports and exercise. There’s much more to learn in life that just what’s in school textbooks. Giving them a thirst for knowledge and a love of learning are so beneficial.

Think About Where You Will Live

You child’s home and school life are incredibly important, but they will also be influenced by the place that they live. Somewhere rife with poverty, crime and unemployment, for example, is never going to be the most positive environment for your child to grow up in. Of course, they can still do well and better their lives, but dysfunction can seem normal to them when they’re surrounded by it. If it’s in your power to move to a nicer area to better yours and your child’s life, then take that opportunity. Look for somewhere with good resources: activities for youth, high employment levels and good education.  Even a small apartment or HDB resale in a nice area would be beneficial compared with a larger house in an area that isn’t great. It’s certainly something to take into consideration when you’re looking for a place to rent or own.

Take Discipline Seriously

Being a parent isn’t just about providing for your child and giving them everything they need. It’s about equipping them with the skills and knowledge they need to be a successful member of society. This allows them to form lasting relationships and friendships, and become a well-rounded individual who can navigate life feeling happy and secure. One thing that can help children is discipline. Discipline allows your child to become civilized in society; it’s not all about punishment. It’s a way of teaching that allows them to learn from mistakes without repeating them, and giving them the cognitive tools to be able to learn better behavior and do better next time around.  It’s about being clear on the rules and boundaries. It’s about accepting that they won’t be perfect, but acknowledging that all behavior has consequences–positive and negative. Children crave attention, rules and boundaries; they thrive when they know what it is they can and can’t do– even if they do push their boundaries at times. Remain firm but fair, and any punishment should reflect the severity of what they have done as well as their age and understanding. For example, very young children throwing tantrums aren’t going to understand or benefit from long time- outs or revoking of certain privileges.

Work on Their Self-Esteem

Again, parenting is about equipping children with the skills and understanding they need to get through life independently. And self-esteem and confidence is an essential asset. When you’re confident in yourself and your abilities, you aren’t held back from trying new things. You can smile in the face of adversity and know that even if you fail, you can keep at it until you eventually reach your goal. Children need to know that it’s ok to fail or go wrong, but that sticking with it means they will eventually achieve their goal and be proud of themselves when they do. Children with good levels of confidence and self esteem tend to be happier and more optimistic compared with those who don’t. Children with low self-esteem find challenges to be frustrating and can be a huge source of anxiety for them.  Praise your child’s accomplishments, and let them work out things themselves. For example, instead of doing everything for them, let them try themselves until they work out a solution. When playing a game, don’t let them win every time- that way when they do win, it will be well earned and they can feel proud of their accomplishments. It’s easy to want to give them everything they want, but understanding that not everything will go their way, and how to be a gracious loser when they don’t, is a fantastic skill to have. Be aware of your own words and behavior too. Criticizing yourself, others or your child can stick with them; remain upbeat and positive and realistic when things go wrong.

Teach Them the Importance of Respect

When we respect others, it shows that we value another as an individual. Respect allows us to honor the personal rights of other humans and allows them to keep their dignity. Because kids aren’t born with the ability to respect others, it’s something that as parents we have to teach them. Babies learn to manipulate the world they live in to get their needs met, so as they mature into a little person, it’s important to show them that this isn’t something they can do later on in their lives. They have to learn to respect their elders and those in a position of authority such as police and teachers. They need to be taught how to share with siblings and peers. They have to understand that sometimes they have to be patient and wait their turn for the things that they want. These are difficult lessons to learn as a child, and aren’t always things that they will thank you for in the moment! However they’re important things to understand and are crucial if they’re going to go on and be successful adults. You don’t have to be your child’s friend- you’re their teacher and guide!

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Tips for Helping Your Children Deal with Divorce and Breakups

This article was contributed, but man, it is good. It hits home, and I especially like the paragraph that I highlighted with my Practical Moms Unite logo. Since my daughter did have to live through a divorce and my ex-husband and I share custody, I know how important and difficult the points in this post are! I hope it helps someone else, too. 

Sometimes relationships don’t work, and that’s part of life. However, when there are children involved, things can become messy and out of control faster than you’d like to think. It’s important to be able to create a relationship with your former spouse or partner, so that you can co-parent your children like you have been doing, but just not living together. Unfortunately, too many people don’t protect their children from the problems they are having within their relationships, and this can have a very negative effect on them. Co-parenting can be difficult, but children shouldn’t have to suffer through endless arguments between their parents. When all is said and done,  the only important thing is that they are healthy, happy, and thriving children. Here’s how you can get through the struggles of co-parenting, so your children can thrive.

If you were married to the co-parent, then things can become a little more difficult than if you weren’t because of divorce proceedings and dividing what you’ve built together in a fair way, so that there are no arguments. You will also have to check what rules there are with the best divorce lawyer so that both of you are clear on what should be done.

It’s also likely that when the time comes to tell your children that you are no longer going to be together, they will be upset. Unfortunately, there isn’t a way out of this, but there are ways in which you can break the news to them more gently and avoid them feeling like their whole world is falling apart. Here are some things that you can consider doing:

  • Rather than simply moving out or having your partner move out, prepare your children for the move first, so it’s not such a shock to wake up one morning and have one of their parents no longer living with them. It might be difficult for the two of you to be around each other, and that’s understandable, but it’s the kindest thing to do for the sake of your children.
  • Speaking to your children in an age-appropriate way about what’s happening before making any decisions or changes in their lives will make the whole process much more smooth for them as they will understand the changes they are experiencing.
  • It’s always best to explain that even though their parents aren’t together anymore, the love that you have for them won’t change and that they are the most important thing in both of your lives. This always seems like an obvious thing to say, but if left unsaid, it can leave your children feeling or wondering like any of this is their fault. Make sure they know that they haven’t done anything.

Obviously each family has their own problems, and dealing with something like a break up isn’t going to be the same for everyone.

The next thing that you will need to think about is the time they will spend with you vs the time they will spend with the co-parent. Come to an agreement that allows your children to know exactly when they are going to be with you, and when they are going to be with their other parent.

Letting your children have some decision making is always a good idea, so they don’t feel like they are losing all control. For example, when the transition of moving out is happening, allow your children to choose things to take to their other home You need to try and remember that it’s not just you and your ex dealing with the break up, it’s the children too, so if they need some comfort by taking a toy or comforter between each home then that shouldn’t be stopped.

Having to let your children go to their other parents’ home for a few days will be difficult! Since they were born, you may not have known a day without them. It will be heartbreaking to watch them as they go off happily, or if they don’t go off happily, that will hurt too. A great way to help diffuse the situation for both you and your children is to set up times where they can call you to tell you about their day or even something simple like saying good night.

Once you and your co-parent are no longer living together, decision making can become a tricky situation, especially if you are both disagreeing on something. Try to set up some sort of arrangement, where if there are decisions that involve your children to be made, you either meet or have a conversation on the phone. Many co-parents make the mistake of just making a decision without the other’s input, which then leads to arguments that could affect your children. On the other hand, there will be times where you disagree and you argue, but this should always be done in private, so your children don’t have to see their parents screaming and shouting at each other.

Relationship breakdowns are hard and are an emotional time for everyone that’s involved. Try to keep your composure, so you can make the transition as easy as possible for your children because at the end of it all they are the only ones that matter in all of this mess. Co-parenting is hard work; but if you both work with each other rather than against each other, you can make the process a little bit easier on everyone involved.

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Tips to Choose Flower Arrangements for Your Dining Room

Flowers always have a way of making a home look more beautiful and cheerful. Their lovely shapes and bright colors can put people who see them in a good mood. If you love flowers, you will want to add flowers to your home, too. Put a pretty flower arrangement from a flower delivery company in your home and make your home look more beautiful. Everyone who visits will be impressed and feel relaxed in your home, especially if you put the flower arrangement in a pretty vase on top of your family dining room table.

Below are the tips for picking flower arrangements for your family dining room table:

  1. Consider the room decoration

Whatever is your flower choice, make sure that you choose the most appropriate one—for the sake of the room decoration! The flower arrangement is used to beautify your room, after all. Make sure that you pick the one that will complement the room. For example, if your dining room design or decoration is the minimalist type, it’s better if you choose a simple flower arrangement because a lavish flower arrangement might not look appropriate there.

  1. Consider the color

After the room decor, the color is what you have to consider, too. Choose the flower color that looks nice and matches the room. What is the color of your dining room? If the color is white, you can choose white too, or other soft colors to make the flower arrangement stand out.

  1. Consider the flower meaning

Do you know that flowers have meaning too? Each flower has its own meaning. If you choose it right, you will not only get a pretty arrangement, but also a meaningful one. You can do a little research on the internet for each flower meaning and decide the most suitable one before buying your flowers. Or you can simply ask the florist for the flower meaning.

  1. Consider the flower itself

However, don’t forget to consider the flower itself–its life span and the maintenance that it needs. Don’t choose flowers that wilt easily or need extra care if you don’t have much free time for it. Instead, choose one that lasts long or just needs a simple treatment to keep it alive and fresh. Moreover, don’t choose flowers that need intensive sunlight if your dining room cannot provide enough sunlight.

  1. Buy it from the best florist

Finally, buy the flower arrangement from the best and trusted florist for the best result. You don’t want to buy flowers with cheap quality, right? An entrusted flower delivery service will be the best source for your flower arrangement; make the rooms in your home look more beautiful with flowers.

The best and experienced florist will know how to choose the most appropriate flower arrangement for your rooms; don’t hesitate to ask for suggestions.

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